MX. NILLIN LORE (they/them) is an AuDHD, queer, genderflux, polyamorous, award winning sexuality blogger, speaker, and author who also provides diversity training & inclusive sex education around the Canadian prairies.
Born and raised in small-town Saskatchewan, on Treaty 6 territory, they have spent substantial time advocating for the rights and protections of trans, non-binary, and gender nonconforming people struggling to make ends meet in a decidedly conservative, “traditional family” leaning landscape.
Much of their community work has been focused around improving trans people’s access to affirming medical services, advocating for inclusive sexual wellness supports, and challenging employment and housing discrimination. As an extension of these efforts, they work at the University of Saskatchewan’s Clinical Learning Resource Center, within their Simulated Exam Teaching Associate program, as a Male Urogenital Teaching Associate, which involves instructing medical students on how to provide genital, scrotum, rectum, and prostate exams.
Nillin’s written work has been featured around the world, both online and in print, including in the “BEDFELLOWS: Porn as Pedagogy” exhibit featured at the Tate Modern Museum of London in October of 2016. Most recently, their blog was ranked 1st in Molly’s Daily Kiss’ Top 100 Sex Blogs of 2021. It was thanks to some of these accomplishments that they were then invited to co-write “Chapter 16: Sexuality” for the 2nd Edition of Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, from Oxford University Press, alongside their peers Jiz Lee and Tobi Hill-Meyer.
They are also an accomplished erotica writer having had stories published in Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 4, Volume 5, and Volume 6, The Big Book of Orgasms Volume 2 and The Big Book of Quickies, all from Cleis Press, as well as Take It Outside from Incision Press, a new indie queer publisher founded by Orlando Silver. In 2022 they tried their hand at the helm of an anthology with Heckin’ Lewd: Trans and Nonbinary Erotica, from Bold Strokes Books.
Nillin’s first solo book, How Do I Sexy? A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers, was released by Thornapple Press in 2024. They are now hard at work writing another two titles for the publisher, Carry On: Unpacking Your Internalized Transphobic and Queerphobic Baggage, and, Nonmonogamy and Queer Inclusivity. Both will release in 2026.